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Embrace your fire.

Embrace your fire.

We live in a world in which women are so imbued with shame that we deny our fire and badassery. I wish for a world where your wildness, your fire--doesn’t need to be deleted. Where there’s no desire for redemption--because you are already holy. I want a world where...

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This life now.

This life now.

This life--now--is as beautiful and wondrous as it gets. This life now? Is holy. What is holy to an atheist, like me; what is holy to a believer, like you? This moment. All of it. The raw reality, no matter how dirty or grimy--or bright, fresh and new. The trauma. The...

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a wild ass wonderful adventure…

a wild ass wonderful adventure…

If I told you back in the day I was going to quit my job as an English professor to host week-long parties with wild women in mansions, you’d have probably written me off as crazy. And if I said I was gonna make three times the money I ever made teaching? ‘Yep. That...

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The power of debauchery

The power of debauchery

I make no secret of the fact that I used to be a stripper. So you know I know a thing or two about making a living using sensual movement. But while creating a fantasy through moving my body was a valuable career skill (which brought in far more cash than my PhD),...

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The life-changing magic of shaking your a$$

The life-changing magic of shaking your a$$

Hello, friend. Quick question. Do you ever shake dat ass? I’m not talking about a flirty sway from side to side. No sweet little shimmy. I mean really shake that ass — like wiggle, jiggle, bounce. Wild and free. You should try it. It’ll change your life. Having a bad...

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