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The power of debauchery

The power of debauchery

I make no secret of the fact that I used to be a stripper. So you know I know a thing or two about making a living using sensual movement. But while creating a fantasy through moving my body was a valuable career skill (which brought in far more cash than my PhD),...

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The life-changing magic of shaking your a$$

The life-changing magic of shaking your a$$

Hello, friend. Quick question. Do you ever shake dat ass? I’m not talking about a flirty sway from side to side. No sweet little shimmy. I mean really shake that ass — like wiggle, jiggle, bounce. Wild and free. You should try it. It’ll change your life. Having a bad...

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Do it for yourself

Do it for yourself

I heard somebody was out here working on herself for someone else. If I get better, maybe she’ll do better. If I stop doing that, maybe he will too. If I uplevel, the whole crew’s on the come up. Was that you? Girl, stop. That’s not what this is about. You can’t be...

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Letter to a younger you

Letter to a younger you

We’ve been through some shit, haven’t we? I don’t even have to know you--to know that this is true. You ever think about yourself back in the day? Ever think about that girl, going through hell? Maybe you were living a nightmare on the streets, or maybe you were...

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Story of a failure.

Story of a failure.

Are you concerned that you’re not where you’re supposed to be yet? Let me tell you about a time that I failed utterly. You can watch the video here. Listen to my story and take heart, my homie. The difference between those who do great things—and those who meander...

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What would YOU do?

What would YOU do?

Homies, it has been a minute since I could sink into vacay planning-- I bet you can relate! But I’m seeing y’all in these social media streets travelling, planning, packing your bags...and I am so curious…. What would be your dream travel destination?! If you could go...

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