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This is my story.

This is my story.

This is my story. It doesn’t get rawer than this. Let me tell you where I come from, the life I've lived, and the experiences that have molded me. Do you feel me? Do you resonate with my story?

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How Big I Could Be

How Big I Could Be

Imagery of the female body that services the desires of men or lines the pockets of large corporations faces no censorship--Hooters restaurants are alive and well, and Victoria’s Secret lacks nothing in cleavage shots.  We do, however, censor imagery of the female...

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What would Beyonce do?

What would Beyonce do?

Picture it. You've purchased a ticket for a Beyonce concert several months away. As the event approaches, you realize that perhaps-- Huh, I no longer like these songs, Or, Hm, I think I'd actually like to make other plans for that day, Or, Oops, maybe I made the...

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What would Beyonce do?

Be Your Own Damn Friend

I created this practice because I need it. Like many of you, I am prone to depression, anxiety--something I think is congenital, I get it from my Mama, and my son got it from me. It’s a darkness, a weird shadow that stalks your life, and can sure as shit ruin your...

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Adjust Your Attitude

Adjust Your Attitude

Yesterday I went to purchase some new glasses. This is a process that should have been fairly quick since I knew what I wanted. Instead, I got paired up with a chatty salesperson. By the time we were done, I knew all about his recent visit to Vegas, how he wore a...

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